It’s Not Therapy!
I’m Liana Kerzner and I am not a therapist! I navigate the madness of mental health with interesting guests, inspiring stories and real questions from regular people!
Episodes
Thursday Dec 18, 2025
The Murder of Soleiman Faqiri: When The System Goes Horribly Wrong
Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Thursday Dec 18, 2025
Soleiman Faqiri was murdered by jail guards in an Ontario jail in December of 2016 after an altercation with a neighbour. Soli, as his family called him, had schizoaffective disorder, and a judge had ordered him to be transferred from jail to an appropriate hospital. Before that could happen, Soli had his hands and feet bound, his face covered by a spit hood, and endured over 50 bruises and other injuries from jail guards, causing his death - which was ruled a homicide. A government inquiry found numerous violations of procedure in Soli's treatment and issued a report with recommendations for the better treatment of mentally-ill prisoners. 2 years later, none of the recommendations have been followed and none of the guards who beat Soli to death have been charged in his murder. Soli's brother Yusef speaks to Liana about the efforts of him, his family, and advocates across the country to effect positive change in the corrections system in memory of Soli through https://justiceforsoli.com/
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
How To Get It All Done Without Doing Yourself In
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Thursday Dec 11, 2025
Meep Meep. Run.
What can Wile E. Coyote's nemesis the Road Runner tell us about gaining greater control over our lives? A lot! And so can Steven Puri of thesukha.co, an expert in helping people create order from the chaos of daily living. What's your chronotype? Why are you tying yourself in knots to meet the expectations of others? Liana talks to Steven about all of this and more, with simple steps to simplify your life.
Thursday Nov 20, 2025
Femininity and Fear
Thursday Nov 20, 2025
Thursday Nov 20, 2025
Are you tired of being afraid but don’t know how to live any other way? Do you believe that good things never happen to you and the bad things keep finding you? You don’t have to live that way. Liana talks to Riana Malia, creator of the Clear To Create method for high achieving women, about how to change your thinking so you stop attracting the same type of rotten people again and again, by getting in touch with your own values.
Thursday Nov 13, 2025
What's Missing From Masculinity?
Thursday Nov 13, 2025
Thursday Nov 13, 2025
Be a Man! What is a "Man" in 2025? It's a question that has been plaguing men and boys as former rites of passage fade away leaving a void for self-definition - a void too often filled by agents of anger and grievance. Aaron Tait, author of Far Horizons: A Journey From War To Peace, grew-up with a "man's man" father and went off to war after the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks, beginning a long journey where he re-defined himself was being a man is. Liana's talks to Aaron about his evolution and how his experiences can help inform other men how to feel comfortable and confident in their own definition of masculinity.
Thursday Nov 06, 2025
Why It's So Hard To Just STOP!
Thursday Nov 06, 2025
Thursday Nov 06, 2025
STOP! How did you just react to reading that? For some, it's a sign to pump the breaks, for others, it spurs a range of emotions - fear, anger - that increase the velocity of their response. Sound like you or someone you know? Liana talks to certified clinical hypnotherapist Kisha Reynolds about what type of past experiences cause a negative reaction to 'stopping' and what can be done to give you back the reins of your thoughts.
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
Self-Improvement - Yes You Can!
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
Yes, You Can!Self-improvement, two simple words that fuel a multi-million dollar industry of books, videos and seminars. But personal growth needn't be expensive or complicated. Liana's friend Bianca of Myself and Comics on YouTube, talks about her journey to self-empowerment, which started from an unexpected place!
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Relationships: Ruptures & Repair
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Thursday Oct 23, 2025
Very few people crave conflict (that's a whole other show) and most try to avoid it. But in any healthy relationship - with a friend, family, or partner - conflict naturally occurs and trying to avoid it simply magnifies the scope of the disagreement. Liana uses personal experiences , positive and negative, to talk about how to manage conflict so it stays small and manageable with a healthy outcome for everyone involved.
Thursday Oct 16, 2025
What is "Flow"? How To Get It - Especially When Remote Working
Thursday Oct 16, 2025
Thursday Oct 16, 2025
Go with The Flow - Call it your groove, your mojo, Steven Puri calls it his Flow State, that mental state of peak focus, creativity and energy focused on the task at hand. Flow is a challenge for many remote workers. Steven, a former Hollywood executive, founded The Sukha Company to offer tools and platforms for remote workers to improve focus and productivity. Liana talks to Steven about his journey, the obstacles remote workers may face to enter a Flow state and how to overcome them.
Thursday Oct 09, 2025
How Parents Teach Resilience (Or How They Don't)
Thursday Oct 09, 2025
Thursday Oct 09, 2025
"It ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you get hit and keep moving forward" - Rocky Balboa.
Resilience. No life is without bumps or even crises, it's how we are able to respond to those moments that determines what is next. Resilience isn't something learned at those moments, it's a skill we develop for when we need it, ideally learned in childhood. Clinical Psychologist and mom of twins Dr. Kate Lund, author of Step Away - The Keys to Resilient Parenting, joins Liana to discuss how parents can raise children who can bounce back when life deals them a knock. Plus, steps to build your own resilience in 10 minute exercises.
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Autism and Creativity with Bobby Calloway
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
An artist with autism? Doesn't fit the stereotype, does it? That's because the stereotype is wrong, and Bobby Calloway is living proof. A professional actor and author from Ireland, Bobby joins Liana to discuss the realities of his autism, how he has overcome any challenges his autism has posed, which contains relatable steps that can help all of us overcome obstacles in our lives.
Bobby's book, Joanna and the Twelve Crowns, is available on Amazon.

Do you need therapy?
Or solutions?
Therapy is great for a lot of things. But it's not designed to get you through your day to day. Too often, people get defined by their diagnosis, instead of realizing that many mental wellness skills are learned, not innate. This podcast can give you tools to understand how you perceive and process challenges, so you can be your best self!




